Re: Thinking about adopting

Hi Stan!  Just wanted to throw in a couple of "cat facts" that might
help you make up your mind:

One:  Cats are creatures of habit, they form routines quickly based on
what goes on regularly in their home:  thus your cat will quickly
learn what time you come home, and will look forward to that time.  If
your hours don't vary much, the cat will get used to that routine.

Two:  Cats need 14 hours of sleep daily, so he will probably end up
using his time alone to get his deep sleep needs in.

There was a TV program that featured a problem with 2 siamese cats
that tore up the house while their owner was at work all day; the
consultant designed a kitty play area for them in the spare bedroom,
with things to climb on, cat walks, and dangling strings, etc.  A
camera was mounted to see how they did, and they made good use of
their playground.

I empathize with your concerns.  I am retired now, but don't like to
leave my cat for long periods alone.  I think as they get older they
may not mind as much, because they aren't as active. Well, best of
luck, I hope you are both very happy.