Re: Forget It....

"Candace" <maccandace@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message 
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 Aug 2, 9:14 pm, "Sara" <puff...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> "Kyla =^. .^=`" <kyla.water...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in 
> messagenews:qI6dnVlECqRutwjVnZ2dnUVZ_hqdnZ2d@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> (snipped)
>
>
>
> > What the hell am I doing so wrong NOW?
> > CN apologized, I accepted her apology, and left myself wide open for 
> > more
> > hissiness.
> > I'm trying to get this place back to being fun like it used to be is 
> > all.
> > Now my 'efforts' are turning on me again.
> > Should I even bother posting some cute cat pictures of our clowder?
> > *sigh*
> > Kyla
>
> maybe a little less "effort" by you would be a good thing? Some
> accountability too :) OR, dare I say it... a sincere apology back to
> Catnipped for the grief she went through over this? Do you really think 
> you
> are the only one with feelings that may have gotten hurt in the last
week?
> "I accept your apology" just seems so... I dunno, Royal or something. a
> bit snooty perhaps?
>
> the whole victim act was old a LONG time ago -- maybe if you just try
not
> participating in any conversation about 'old' stuff and decide
> that right now is the beginning of a new rpca experience for you it
would 
> be
> easier to get past the ugliness and feel good about this group again. 
> maybe
> :)
>
> I'd love to see pics of your clowder.... maybe quit 'talking' about 
> posting
> them and just do it... and for heavens sake just quit reha****ng the past
> week and let bygones be.
>
> and for sanity's sake, please don't "sigh" or let us know how upset you 
> are
> about all of this any more. I really think that most of us don't care,
> and those who do -- well they know your email address by now and they
can
> let you know privately (please!)
>
> Sara

You're fun, I haven't seen you here much before.  Are you new to the
fold?

Candace

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I started off on the wrong foot a while back, mostly I lurk. Once in a
while 
I can't help myself and I throw in my two cents worth.  Usually it's
ignored 
:)   I like to think I get a few chuckles from other lurkers once in a
while 
tho.

There is a lot of experience and knowledge in this group though and I 
appreciate that most of them are happy to share that and try to help
others 
with their cats.  I've learned a lot.  I hope one day I'm in a position to

give some back to others in need of good advice.

s