Re: Forget It....

"Kyla =^. .^=`" <kyla.waterman@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message 
news:qI6dnVlECqRutwjVnZ2dnUVZ_hqdnZ2d@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
(snipped)
>
> What the hell am I doing so wrong NOW?
> CN apologized,  I accepted her apology, and left myself wide open for
more 
> hissiness.
> I'm trying to get this place back to being fun like it used to be is
all.
> Now my 'efforts' are turning on me again.
> Should I even bother posting some cute cat pictures of our clowder?
> *sigh*
> Kyla
>


maybe a little less "effort" by you would be a good thing?   Some 
accountability too :)   OR, dare I say it... a sincere apology back to 
Catnipped for the grief she went through over this?  Do you really think
you 
are the only one with feelings that may have gotten hurt in the last week?

"I accept your apology"  just seems so... I dunno, Royal or something.  a 
bit snooty perhaps?

the whole victim act was old a LONG time ago -- maybe if you just try not 
participating in any conversation about 'old' stuff and decide
that right now is the beginning of a new rpca experience for you it would
be 
easier to get past the ugliness and feel good about this group again. 
maybe 
:)

I'd love to see pics of your clowder.... maybe quit 'talking' about
posting 
them and just do it...  and for heavens sake just quit reha****ng the past 
week and let bygones be.

and for sanity's sake, please don't "sigh" or let us know how upset you
are 
about all of this any more.   I really  think that most of us don't care, 
and those who do -- well they know your email address by now and they can 
let you know privately (please!)

Sara