On Oct 11, 8:48 am, Verger <nom...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> On Thu, 11 Oct 2007 09:00:36 +0200, Michel Oosterbeek
> <n...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> sang the following hymns:
>
>
>
> >Why did you decide that your gp-days are over now? Perhaps some new
> >piggers could even help you cope with the loss of Monster and Beer...
>
> >Take care!
>
> >Michel
>
> Because of several reasons.
> And all these reasons exist in spite of the fun and happiness they add
> to your life.
>
> They cost a lot of money in terms of food.
> I can't go on even a small trip. I have to ask someone else to babysit
> them. And I have no conatct with my neighbors. The option that remains
> is a cavia shelter.
> They need care and nurturing to stay healthy. it si a responsibility.
> The die and scar me, the cuter and more loveable they are, the harder
> it hits me.
>
> And like I said, they bring joy to your life as well. But for some
> time now I need to be without the worrying. You see, when I took in
> Monster I loved him so that almost from day 1 i was stressed about him
> dying on me. He was extremely special to me. I loved him like a I love
> my human girlfriend. From time to time I would relax and he lived
> above average a lifespan. His end was not like Beer's. it was less
> quick and not too pleasant despite seeing 2 vets and something to
> relax him.
>
> For some time I don't want to go through that again.
>
> I hope you understand. perhaps I care too much or experience things
> too deeply. It is different for other people mayhaps.
>
> For now I have learned enough about the cycle of life and about death
> and love.
>
> In the future I may get more cavia's. But now a vacation will do me
> good.
>
> --
>
> Verger
>
> "What are we in time going by"-- Mountain ( For Yasgur's Farm)
Hi Verger
So sorry to hear of your loss. I know exactly what you mean about the
trauma of losing these gorgeous little creatures and experiencing it
so deeply. It's almost a year since I Iost mine and I can't bring
myself to replace them. There is a saying: 'it's better to have loved
and lost, than to have never loved at all'. Time is a great healer and
you will eventually find it in your heart to have some more piggies.
All the best
Heather


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